Eye on the Goal
In my last post on personal time management, I presented time as a sort of “funnel of certainty” with events far in the future being very uncertain, events in the near future being fairly certain, events happening right now as being entirely certain, and events in the past becoming progressively less certain. I also gave a fairly broad definition of what an event is. I’m now going to present some thoughts on goals, and what makes certain events important for a person. Once again, I’m thinking as a write, and these ideas are still very rough.
A goal is a type of event. It is something that we want to happen in the future. While some people may indicate that a goal must have a measurable end result or tangible finish, or say that a goal must have some sort of psychological impact (”It must be realistic but still a bit of a stretch”), I consider anything that is desired to occur the future to be a goal. All of the following can be goals under this definition:
- Becoming an immortal god
- Eating dinner
- Washing the dishes
- Going for a walk
- The sun will rise tomorrow
- Playing a chess game
Note that the chance of a goal actually occurring does not change whether an event is a goal or not. Goals under this new definition are anything from certain to impossible.
Although humans have the ability to multitask, this ability is severely limited. The goals of “walking around the mall” and “chewing bubble gum” can easily occur simultaneously for the vast majority of human beings. But as mentioned in the last time management post, the goals of “vacationing in Las Vegas” and “vacationing in London” are mutually exclusive and contradictory. For completeness, it’s possible that some goals may be more likely to occur together without any cause and effect relationship between them – as a personal, I usually play a video game while exercising on an exercise bike.
Of course, dependencies do exist among goals. Suppose my goal is to become a famous actor. I might start by working toward the goal of taking theater classes, then being in some small live productions, and working my way up into movies and building a personal brand. On the other hand, I might just wait to be discovered as a great actor by a movie executive. Or, I could produce an amateur movie and post it online (YouTube?). Regardless of if I wait for a lucky break, produce a full movie, or start posting to YouTube, taking an acting class will probably help — but only if it does prior to completing those activities. Other dependencies are not dependent upon order: If your goal is to have a simple, four-legged chair, and you’re in possession of all the parts, all of those parts must be assembled, but it most likely doesn’t matter which leg is attracted to the seat first.
To summarize, here are the relationships that a goal may have to any other goal:
- Null – The goals have no or virtually no expected affect on each other
- Complimentary – The goals are more likely to occur simultaneously than separately
- Contradictory – The goals are more likely to occur separably than simultaneously
- Dependent – A partial or complete cause and effect relationship exists between one goal and the other; this may or may not make the “cause” goal a subgoal of the “effect” goal. It is not necessarily true that a dependent goal cannot also be complimentary or contradictory, and dependent goals can be either order-sensitive or order-insensitive.